Nicodemus, victim of teachings of his time

Joh 3:2
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Looking at the nature of Nicodemus's position in the Jewish religious system. And considering the "new way" Jesus is teaching and preaching. I longed to under stand the confusion many encountered when they heard Jesus speak. Word usage floated to the top of my mind. Use or improper use of words often lead to the demise of kings and kingdoms in times past. People did not consider the application of the word before they acted. We often see that today.

Based on my new understanding I embarked on a word study to understand why Nicodemus could not grasp the concept of the kingdom of God.
Be born again, see and kingdom of God seemed troubling to Nicodemus. In their system under the Law converts to Judaism went through a ritual including the removal of the foreskin. Now Jesus was talking about a process that Nicodemus could not physically see.  Also he likely knew of the process where a pregnant woman got on a birthing stool and a mid-wife helped her to push a baby out, or give birth. The process resulted in a child being born into the world. Yet, Jesus was speaking of a man or woman being born into a kingdom?  The kingdom of God was a great mystery to him also because under their system they had taken God out of the process.

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The further they got away from 1Samuel 8:7 the deeper the rejection of God ran. Now they were a people who knew more about religion than God. This is beginning to sound familiar to me. Very close to something I hear in my lifetime. When councils and conferences decide what God will get as opposed to what he demands and commands. We have created our own religion.

The process Jesus spoke of was and still is a regeneration, not to
be born or slip into a place and immediately begin to die as we as humans do, but to be regenerated recognizing God as the supreme being and begin to live. Nicodemus as a Jewish leader could not see as to know this process that Jesus spoke of. Men and women have problems with this process today because they will not hear and understand the Gospel as God's truth. They are not able to know that death of a regenerated body leads to life eternal. They will believe anything including people claim to be able to raise them from the dead. They do not realize that flesh and blood will no go to heaven.  Nicodemus was likely thinking of the great temple on the mount as the kingdom of God. Nicodemus could not conceive of the kingdom of God that Jesus spoke of. Jesus was not speaking of a physical building that could be destroyed as the Temple was. Jesus was speaking of the glorious church. The Realm where God puts those who hear, believe, and obey the words of his son. The kingdom of God is ruled by God and only he can add souls to it. Some men today may think it is the building sitting on the corner where men can steal cooling systems, or a pipe can burst and ruin carpet and furniture. That building is only where the church meets. Again one does not physically see the church.

I for one trust Jesus when he said: 
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